Well, this really is turning into a bit of a funny year! We have just gotten ourselves through a Socially Distance Halloween, as announcements are made for further lockdowns. Christmas during Covid 19 is looking a little gloomy and worrisome. But do not fear – we had an amazing “Halloween Half Term” with lots of fun for the kids and neighbours, and I am sure, we can come up with some great ideas for Social Distance Christmas Activities for Families too!
There is no question that things will be different this year – Pantos are already postone to 2021, carol concerts look unlikely, it is questionable if you can even go to church. But, with the right mindset we can have a lovely and magical Christmas regardless. I know we can!
Some of the ideas listed here are of course relevant to ANY Christmas or to ANY situation where you mind find yourself far away from loved ones. Though this is written with a Covid Christmas 2020 in mind, I hope you find lots of fun and inspiration for years to come!
Mindset Shift for Christmas
I am going to start off by patronising you.. and saying: it is time for a mindset shift!
Things are “better”, when you are able to let go of expectations and focus on the difference that are good. But this has to come from within you, no one can make a mindset shift for you.
You have be ready to embrace the change and make the most of the situation we are in. Are you with me? Are are a couple of good things about a Socially Distant Christmas:
- More time. Finally MORE time. Less rushing. Take time to read a book, take time to search independent stores for perfect gifts (avoid amazon!), take time to watch old movies, take time to bake some cookies.
- Peace & Calm. Yes, we love a good party, with lots going and lots of people around us.. but peace & calm is a great time to recharge and re-energize.
- Save a little money. No parties, no work secret santas, no theatre trips etc, you will be saving a fair few pennies. Which in the current situation, is probably helpful!
On a cheeky side, you get to avoid Uncle so and so who always corners you with the SAME story at the family do and Auntie such and such who gives you are bar of soap, again. Or no embarrassing moments at the work Christmas Party etc.
I am sure you can come up with some more reasons why a socially distant Christmas is actually full of benefits?
Be enthusiastic and engaged when you talk to your kids about Christmas if you convey a digital Christmas will be fun then they will pick up on that feeling and echo it.Becky Goddard from her thoughts on a Digital Christmas
When do you Put the Christmas Tree Up?
This is an age old debate, with many different traditions depending on where in the world you live! Main people put the Christmas Up on the first of December. Others wait until Christmas Eve and keep it up all through January! This is the year, to say goodbye to old traditions.. and do what YOU WANT. If you want to put the tree up on the 1st November (yes, I actually wrote November!!) then DO!
Light Up Your Street
We managed to persuade our neighbours to light up almost every other tree on our street last year. Oh my it was magical.
As the gloomy weather decended on us, we fought it back with Christmas Light Magic!
MANY in the area commented on how festive our road looked.. and I have a sneaky suspicion that more roads will follow this year. I am so excited!
How do you get a light up your street organised?
Start early – start talking to your neighbours now.. if you have a neighbourhood email, email them all, text people, use local whats app groups of facebook groups! Start early and light up your street!
Light up the kids’ bedrooms
With kids being home more, make the indoors just as magical, with more indoor fairly lights.. my kids actually have their own small (fake) Christmas Trees too. I appreciate how decadent that is, and that not everyon can afford this. But there are some great ways to put “Christmas Trees” into their rooms that don’t cost the earth. From simple Paper Plate Christmas Tree Twirlers to Stick Trees like this.
Create new Family Traditions
This is the year to try something new. This is the year, we will all have to slow down, as there are no plays to go to, no sporting matches to watch, no carol concerts, no drinks parties.. but this also means: MORE TIME! More time as a family. Embrace time BUT keep it simple. This is all about relaxing and enjoying the time ahead and not making it stressful.
So new Christmas traditions could include:
- Playing family board games every Sunday afternoon (whilst listening to Christmas songs)
- Having a Christmas Bake off (see below)
- Making and writing Christmas cards
- Dressing up for a silly photo to send to family and friends – or create a Christmas video to send out to relatives – be sure to personalise each one!!
- Having a regular PJ day
- Revisiting childhood favourite Christmas movies
- An opportunity to ban the elf on the shelf as he has covid… or
- An opportunity to introduce the elf on the shelf if he has never visited before (but don’t create a rod for your back)
- Creating an Advent Calendar filled with little activities (e.g. read a story, make a card, sing a song)
These are just some ideas! Again, I am sure you can think of more.
Make a Photo Advent Calendar for yourself and family
My son, actually asked for a Photo Advent Calendar instead of a chocolate one this year! I thought that was very sweet. So he will get both! The idea is super simple – 24 photos, either on a washing line, blu tacked to the wall or in inevelopes, numbered… every day you get to pick one and see what photo (and memory is hidden!).
The work lies in selecting the photos, once you have sort 24 images you like, you can print a number of sets off for different members and post. So everyone can enjoy this calendar with you if you wish! Or just make one for home. But wouldn’t it be lovely to do one for the grandparents, and then have a daily face time session, revealing the photo – as per my good friend Becky’s digital Christmas ideas?
Highlight the best parts of 2020 (you will suprise yourself, I am sure – more happy memoires than you give 2020 credit for) OR select 24 images from “years gone by” instead.
Be sure to include all family members – grandparents, aunties and uncles, yourself (!!) and the kids. And of course your family pets…
Make a Picture Book Advent Calendar
We LOVE Christmas story books. And have a whole set that ONLY come out at Christmas. The kids are now more than old enough to enjoy them by themselves.. but this year, I think we will give relatives a call and read them our favourites.
You can run a book advent -as a daily Christmas story (perfect for any bedtime routine). Or it is easier for you to manage have Sunday advent and story reading time – we have SOO many Christmas Picture Books that we love!
And you can wrap and stash them like a Christmas Tree (find image)
Celebrate Advent Sunday
So lovely readers.. I still have LOTS of ideas to share with you, and I shall continue, but I am starting to run out of writing steam! Ha. So sorry. I am used to short articles.. but I have so much more to share with you.. so the following set of ideas, may become a little briefer!
Those that have been following Red Ted Art for a while, know that I am Austrian and that I have taken a number of Austrian Christmas traditions and made them part of our Family Christmas. One of these is the celebrating of Advent. Basically, lighting a candle on the 4 Sundays before Christmas, eating cookies, spending time together etc. But you can read all about our 1st of Advent here.
Hold a virtual Christmas Bake Off/ Cook Along/ Cookie Decorating
We LOVE making Christmas Cookies here on Red Ted Art and make a variety every year. This year, we will look at doing some Zoom Cookie Decorating. But if you are not keen on Zoom (I get it), you can always have a recipe exchange or bake off – sharing photos with family memebers. If they don’t live to far, you can may even drop some of your bakes round!
As you know Christmas Cake can and should be made NOW! The longer the “rest” the better. So a Christmas Cake baking session with grown ups, would be a great one for a cook a long. You may find a different “cook a long” to suit a different family member – e.g. the kids can have a cookie decorating zoom, but you may want to make mince pies with granddad!
Hold a Christmas Ornament Making Session (also on Zoom if you wish)
We love love love Ornament Making! Either have a Christmas ornament making with just your family, or again, you can turn it into a Zoom Crafting session.
We have TONS of ornament ideas for you – our favourite ornaments are here, with a full ornaments list here. You can make ornaments out of anything – learn how to make Salt Dough Ornaments or why not explore our paper ornaments too?
If having a Christmas Ornament Zoom session – you may want to prepare some salt dough shapes ahead of time and decorate them whilst talking to family!
Have a neighbourly cookie exchange
I mentioned my Austrian heritage already.. there is a tradition in Germanic/ Scandinavian countries to have a great big cookie bake off. You either come together as friends and bake lots of different recipes, to then parcel up and take home, OR you can bake 2-3 recipes yourself, which you then trade with others. In other words – have a cookie exchange.
You could easily organise t his into a cookie swap or cookie gift for local friends and neighbours! Spread Christmas cheer one cookie at a time!
Have a recipe exchange with family
I mentioned this idea before in our Thanksgiving Activities article. Christmas is about food (in our case also about cookies!). So why not have a family recipe exchange and then turn it into an actual family recipe book?
Create Photo Christmas Cards
Sending family photo Christmas Cards is always really precious!! This year, we have a bit “more time” at home. So why not spend a day or afternoon creating something big and wonderful – make it fun and quirky.. and photograph away.
The photos can be used for printed cards, or can be sent virtually if you need to save a little money. Either way, you will be creating memories for the kids and your family!
Whether creating photo Christmas Cards online or making your own, sending photos this year would be a lovely way to connect!
There are lots of online Photo Prop Resources too, to help you along, like our free Christmas Photo Props.
Have family Games Night (potentially on Zoom)
Hold yourself a family games night – either just you guys at home, or bring in family members via Zoom. There are lots of ways of doing this. You can use real board games (so long as both households have copies) and move your pieces along together, or you can use online platforms like boardgame arena. We used this during lockdown and it was a fun way to connect with friends.
Hold a virtual Secret Santa & Zoom Party
We love a gift exchange! A virtual Christmas does not mean that Secret Santa is cancelled. In fact, many of us are ordering online anyway.. it would be easy to have a Secret Santa gift delivered directly you. I do encourage you though to shop independent – avoid the beast that is Amazon… and see what personalised gifts you can find on places like Etsy!
Then once the Secret Santa is organsied, have yourselves a Secret Santa Zoom party and open the gifts together!
Book a doorstep Santa
We saw some fab Doorstep Halloween visits online.. and similarly, many areas have a “doorstep Santa”. Google what is available or ask in local facebook groups. But be quick, before Santa sells out!! (Or alternatively, why not arrange a reciprocal visit with friends).
Have a Christmas Lights Drive
A Christmas Classic that we love to do every year anyway! We know a local street that is super fun and full of decor. It is a great place to drive by nearer Christmas and they always collect money for charity too!
Christmas Lights Scavenger Hunt/ Bingo
As with our Halloween ideas, why not have a Christmas Lights Scavenger Hunt or Bingo? I have some great printables coming for you soon!
Christmas Online Escape Rooms
Lockdown has seen the rise of online escape rooms. There are so many now to choose from and I have no doubt, that you will be able to find some great Christmas versions too!
More Virtual Christmas Ideas for you:
- Host a Christmas Cocktail Party on Zoom
- Have a virtual wine tasting (we did this with our neighbours during lockdown and it was great fun! You can get small sized bottles for tasting and have them delivered)
- Christmas Quiz on Zoom
Looking for more ideas? Visit Becky’s collection of Ideas for A Digital Christmas. I love the face time present hunt and the recorded bed time stories. So sweet! She also has a great list of independent small shops that you can buy from this year!
Needless to say, we also have LOTS and LOTS of Christmas Crafts for you here:
And our dedicated Handmade Ornaments Post here: